Sunday, November 29, 2009

Safety Tips for Online Dating.


Online dating is a lot fun and you can find some serious matches if you are lucky. However, just like any other system, online dating also has its drawbacks and loopholes. Internet dating safety tips come in handy to safeguard you from the possible pitfalls of online dating. Interacting online exposes you to various types of risk such as, fraud, security, and adultery, to name a few. Some of the dating safety tips mentioned below should help you establish a safe and fine relationship when dating online.

Patience:

Be patient when interacting with people. Do not disclose your personal life and information until you are certain about the trustworthiness of the other person.
Information like your real name, E-mail address, where you live, family and friends, this is all out of bounds info until you know that person well. Most people that are looking to take you for a ride will get bored and move on if you do not give them any information that they can us.

Analysis:

Keep a critical eye on every online communication with the other person. Do not spare even the slightest slip, as you cannot afford one in online dating. If you find that the other person is being too insistent or pressing irrespective of your comfort levels, or he/she is being dishonest, just opt out of any further communication with the person.
Anonymity: Do not disclose your any personal information when dating online, either in profile or in your mails to the other people. Take care not to yield to any pressure or temptation.

Photos:

Try not to communicate with members that do not have any photos of themselves, if it is possible try to get 2-3 photos out of a person, the reason for this is most people have at lest 3 photos of themselves, if the member you are talking to only has one and cant send you anymore, chances are that the photo they are using is a fake.
Information: Try collecting as much information as possible from the other person about them. Ask as many questions you want maintaining his/her comfort levels at the same time. It would be ideal if you can verify the information provided by the other person.
Decisions: In the online world, you decide about your next move. It is absolutely your ability to judge, verify and decide this aspect when dating online. You can graduate to the next level depending upon the certainty you have for the other person. It is better to be safe than sorry.

Chatrooms:
All dating sites have chatrooms filled with interesting people, this I a great place to start socializing, once you have found someone you like and there seems to be sparks, try private chatting with this person for a while, this will help you decide if you really have anything in common and you will still be safe, as long as you have followed the rules of engagement.

Webcams:

Once you have built up a relationship with a member try using a webcam to converse, before you meet for the first time, this will help you in so many ways.
First you will be able to see the person you have been chatting to.
Second body language is a big give away and you will be able to read them like a book.
But the best part is all the fun you can have with a webcam.

All the above features can be found at most online dating sites that pride themselves in the safety of their members and the enjoyment of online dating, don’t be a victim of online fraud, stay safe and never be shy to ask the right question and avoid the questions that could reveal your where about’s and your personal information.

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